Gay or Not Gay

Prefects of people's lives

There has been a growing rage here on substack concerning two sides One is anti-gay the other one is pro gay.

kweli It's actually drama, cos why should there be a rough acceptance when it comes to different ideologies? Cos everyone who jumped to either respond or support has an ideology which supports their reasoning. Gays are not receiving hate for the first time, actually they always expect it cos people have never wrapped their minds around it, especially gayism as a specific.

Osoiiii everyone can express their take on smth, but the expression should be limited to a subject of discussion. Great minds have a way of driving a point without making it about insults and a show of incapacity. What I don’t understand is it disgust towards gays, or both a belief there's a better side of them not being gay. Cos if it's disgust alone, it's unfair. In this world everyone has their pov on everything but if we were all convinced that our pov hold the better sense then as humanity we'd all be in chaos. We live peacefully in the world because we can harmoniously seat with what everyone believes. If in any way you feel what someone is believing is wrong or misplaced you don't start by condemning them, you start by understanding them. Cos you can't expect them to change out of condemnation or insults, they change out of feeling understood and you having a better solution for them. Cos you can't be loud telling someone not to be gay and you don't have anything to tell them to be.

Kev you might be right but fuelling the convos with assumptions is only enrouting the convo making everyone take sides which will not help with anything just more insults, personalization and pretention.

Substack has always been peaceful, everyone found a way of coexisting. If you don't find smth likeable there's an option of blocking. We don't have to know what you hate cos it doesn't guarantee that we will hate it too. Let people be, those who thrive in pretention, peer pressure, insecurity let them be cos some behaviors it's not up to us to change everyone, actually some don't want to be changed they chose the life they live.

Nicole let it go, responding to everything is what is giving everything relevance.